Thursday, 24 May 2012

becoming remarkAble! isn't a destination, it's a journey


I couldn't possibly say it any better that Constantine Cavafy!

 

Ithaca

As you set out for Ithaca
hope the voyage is a long one,
full of adventure, full of discovery.
Laistrygonians and Cyclops,
angry Poseidon—don’t be afraid of them:
you’ll never find things like that on your way
as long as you keep your thoughts raised high,
as long as a rare excitement
stirs your spirit and your body.
Laistrygonians and Cyclops,
wild Poseidon—you won’t encounter them
unless you bring them along inside your soul,
unless your soul sets them up in front of you.

Hope the voyage is a long one.
May there be many a summer morning when,
with what pleasure, what joy,
you come into harbors seen for the first time;
may you stop at Phoenician trading stations
to buy fine things,
mother of pearl and coral, amber and ebony,
sensual perfume of every kind—
as many sensual perfumes as you can;
and may you visit many Egyptian cities
to gather stores of knowledge from their scholars.

Keep Ithaca always in your mind.
Arriving there is what you are destined for.
But do not hurry the journey at all.
Better if it lasts for years,
so you are old by the time you reach the island,
wealthy with all you have gained on the way,
not expecting Ithaca to make you rich.

Ithaca gave you the marvellous journey.
Without her you would not have set out.
She has nothing left to give you now.

And if you find her poor, Ithaca won’t have fooled you.
Wise as you will have become, so full of experience,
you will have understood by then what these Ithacas mean.


See more at his website:

Constantine P Cavafy

Translated by Edmund Keeley/Philip Sherrard

C.P. Cavafy,
Collected Poems. Translated by Edmund Keeley and Philip Sherrard. Edited by George Savidis. Revised Edition. Princeton University Press, 1992



Wednesday, 23 May 2012

feeling discombobulated!

dis·com·bob·u·late

verb (used with object), dis·com·bob·u·lat·ed, dis·com·bob·u·lat·ing.
to confuse or disconcert; upset; frustrate

Things have gone a little pear shaped today - I am certainly feeling confused, disconcerted and upset after hearing some bad news about a friend's cancer setback.

My focus this week was going to be on family and caring for myself and, as yesterday's post suggested, to ...



My state of mind today has brought up many painful and unpleasant memories, but also some reminders of the remarkable things that have happened for me as a result of experiencing cancer.

 

So I found myself feeling devastated by his news and feeling that I had no idea what to say or do that could possibly help, or make a difference. Then I remebered ...

  

7 powerful things  

 

I have been on his journey too, and there are many small, but powerful things you can say or do for someone who is experiencing cancer, or someone facing any kind of adversity.
  1. Tell them 'I don’t know what to say or do for you'
  2. Don’t underestimate the power of the small things ... a smile, a touch, a compliment or a kind word
  3. Ask them  'What kind of day are you having today?'
  4. Ask them, and their family 'What do you need today?'
  5. Put aside your own fears for a while and listen
  6. Let them cry
  7. Make them laugh

So .....


I have done all of the above.
I am caring for myself.
I am cooking with love, for a birthday celebration with our daughter and grandchildren tonight.
I am managing to keep calm and carry on!

 

 

Tuesday, 22 May 2012

keep calm and carry on

We’ve all seen the posters, coffee mugs, aprons and other merchandise bearing this iconic image and various incarnations of it. Not many are aware of the history behind it.



The story of this simple and inspiring message is a fascinating one. Click here to watch the clip - it is a story of war, hardship, propaganda, a train station, a bookshop called Barter Books (one of the 20 most beautiful bookstores in the world), and the need to keep calm and carry on throughout the adversity we encounter in our remarkable journeys.

I am putting a strategy in place to keep calm and carry on...


This week my hectic schedule has temporarily eased and I am...
  • enjoying the journey, while keeping my eye on the destination
  • giving myself the gift of time with family and friends
  • giving others the gift of meals cooked with love
  • staying well hydrated
  • reading books that stimulate me
  • listening ... and thinking before I speak
  • creating time for creating (my inspiration and aspiration)
  • caring for myself ... it’s not selfish – it’s important!
  • re-energising and regrouping
  • being ...
  • ... and breathing

Alternatively, I could simply ...




















also ...


thank you Narelle for your gift - the inspiration for this post. I've appropriated your idea! You are inspiring!



Tuesday, 8 May 2012

why we need mothers ...

... apart from the obvious!


Mother's Day is approaching and we should all be thinking about the importance of mothers in  our lives. This post will require some of your time ... but isn't the relationship with your mother worth devoting some time to?

This is why sons need mothers ...











(inspiring stuff)

(funny stuff)




 'Skateboarding' - oil painting by Ron Francis



self awareness doesn't only happen once!


Still asking, and will continue to ask myself, for the rest of my life ... “What’s goin’ on?”

My song for the day....4 NonBlondes ‘What’s Up?’


What’s your song for the day?


25 years of my life and still
Trying to get up that great big hill of hope
For a destination.
I realized quickly when I knew I should
That the world was made for this
Brotherhood of man
For whatever that means

And so I cry sometimes when I'm lying in bed
Just to get it all out, what's in my head
And I, I'm feeling a little peculiar
And so I wake in the morning and I step
Outside and I take deep breath
And I get real high
And I scream to the top of my lungs
What's goin' on?

And I say hey-yeah-yeah-yeah, hey yea yea
I say hey! what's goin' on
And I say hey-yeah-yea-eah, hey yea yea
I say hey! what's goin' on?




please sir, I want some more...

Many years ago, I played the part of Oliver in our Year 6, end-of-year school play - Oliver Twist. I sang my heart out in the big finale - 'Food, glorious food'.

On that note, the woman of huge significance in my life would tell you that food has been a lifelong focus for me and that important occasions are always recalled by what was on the menu. She would be right!

I have a passion for cooking for others, entertaining and sharing great food (the spouse might tell you that I spend way too much time searching taste and foodgawker, or reading recipe books and 'abc delicious').  Food is so much more than fuel for the body. Food brings people together ... and that is a good thing to have more of in your life.

Oliver's most famous line in the novel by Charles Dickens is "Please sir, I want some more". That got me thinking about how we always want more in our lives.

Here is my take on what I want more of in my life...

 
more space, less clutter
more outdoors, less computer
more stillness, less rush
more creating, less consuming
more real food, less junk
more impact, less busywork,
more walking, less driving
more solitude, less noise
more focus on the present, less on the future
more play, less work
more smiles, less worry
breathe

also...

 


...last weekend, the spouse and I shared some quality time and some quality Belgian Chocolate Cake with Raspberry Sorbet at The Cafe - Impact Plants - yum.
(we didn't actually share - we had one each!)

Monday, 7 May 2012

...becoming rich


becoming remarkable is all about knowing what you want from life and understanding what drives that - your values.


My sister shared an inspirational story with me the other day.

My nine year old niece was recently having a sleep-over with a school friend. The friend (in her eyes, I am guessing) comes from a family with 'material richness' in their lives.

The young friend asked my niece, 'Are you rich?'

'We are not rich with money, but we are rich with happiness', was my niece's reply.

Isn't she well on her way to becoming remarkable?

What an awesome reply - both inspirational and insightful from one so young! If only more people thought in this way...

...and power to her parents, my sister and brother-in-law, for instilling such values in their children.

she is already rich beyond her dreams!